The other day, one of my god daughters reached out to me. We caught up on her day at school, what she had had for lunch and homework she was working on. She’s always happy, eager and excited when we get in touch and we always have a great exchange whether it’s over Face Time […]
Opposites…
In the last 4 years of my living in London and having a taxi service take me to work on random days, it’s never been with a female driver. Well, it was so a few Fridays ago and I was most amused! She was a lively lady with a bubbly personality who seemed to really […]
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We are Family…
I’ve recently been spending a lot of time with my god daughters and their parents; it’s been a most interesting experience because of what I’ve noticed. One major thing is the generational flow; how the son is just like the father or in this case, the daughter is just like her mother. I observe how […]
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Double Trouble…
Last Saturday, I took my god daughters out; one is 6 and the other is 9 years old. As you can imagine, this was new for me and I felt a bit of anxiety as I drove to pick them up. At their request, we ended up at the O2 Center to see Inside Out in […]
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Time Spent…
A lady cleaner at my workplace has gotten real fond of me. I see her every now and again and we always share good conversations. Of course, in this process I learn about her because she loves to talk! So she’s from Portugal, came to London as a teenager and began working immediately. She’s currently […]
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The Power of Words…
I was hanging with one of my god-daughters and her friends the other day. Somewhere in the course of their playful and joyful engagement, they got into a little disagreement over something and one of them dismissively called her a cow. It was like a movie because everything immediately went quiet and we all stopped to […]
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Full Circle…
There’s something about life that fascinates me. I remember years ago as a freshman, I had my eyes on a girl who I felt was the most beautiful girl in school. The sweetest smile, outgoing personality and awesome figure; I doubt I was the only guy who had a crush on her! The only twist […]
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Pain…
One afternoon, my head began throbbing and my vision grew blurry. I knew something was different and decided to leave work early. I threw up immediately I got home. Now I’m a rather healthy young man and rarely get sick; I say this based on the number of visits I pay to the hospital every […]
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The Journey…
It’s been ages since I last performed a DIY exercise. I recently bought some furniture so I had a chance to get back at it. It was a most interesting Saturday afternoon I have to say. I realized I didn’t have any tools so I had to buy a screwdriver set and hammer from a […]
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What they really want…
I remember back in 2011 after my graduation from Business School, my job search was a very interesting process. I had spent considerable resources, time and energy to train my mind to able to think outside the box, analyze complex data and be better rounded in my perception of business. I was keen on continuing […]
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Limited…
I read an article online yesterday that got me thinking. It was about a man who had just been released from prison after about 20 years. I then goggled the name of the prison and clicked on images to get a feel of what the text I had just read was about. This revealed pictures […]
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Growth…
I studied my first degree in the Philippines. It was an amazing 4years with numerous experiences that I believe have contributed to make me the man I am today. It’s been about 8years since I graduated and I was fortunate to meet up with an acquaintance of mine in London, few weeks ago. He had […]
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A Snapshot of Life…
So, I’m on the tube the other evening and I look around the carriage to see different facial expressions and countenances. It’s a diverse picture. A lady with hand on head trying to massage her headache away, two friends in a heated discussion over the fate of a relationship and a man trying to stay […]
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Curiosity…
This morning I was on the tube into work. It was rush hour so pretty packed as you can imagine. Few minutes after getting on board, I noticed a little girl standing in the corner with her mother. She was dressed up for school and had a little croissant in her hand. She ate into […]
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Nostalgia must be a part of Envy…
Last week on the morning rush into work, a lady stepped onto the tube at Euston station. She was young, pretty and very radiant; brown hair, slim figure with perfect skin. A fresh graduate, new to the City of London was my first impression; perhaps a receptionist, an intern or a young professional I couldn’t […]
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First Impressions…
Late evening yesterday and I had a most interesting experience. I was walking home when I ran into a man who looked pretty shabby, dirty and tattered. He asked if I knew where the closest Sainsbury’s was to which I responded and pointed him in the right direction. He thanked me, gently walked on and […]
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I Want You…
I received a call the other day while at work. It was my goddaughter’s mother. She called to catch up about life and of course, we spoke about her. She had grown up sleeping with her parents but had recently started sleeping alone in her room. Her mom was very happy with this maturity and […]
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I’m Sorry…
I recall many years ago when my goddaughter, who is now 7 was almost 3 years old. She really loved coming into my room to play with me. She’d jump on my bed, wear my hat and touch everything she could lay her hands on! She was always smiles and these moments were enjoyable for […]
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The look in your eyes…
Friday evening, I was waiting for my girlfriend at Bank underground station. I’m like many other people because I also like people watching! Different faces, different strides, different personalities all fascinate and remind me how beautiful and diverse London is. Then I saw a girl crying. She was pushing a travel bag and was in […]
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Love is…
A scene in Ray, the biographical movie of the rhythm and blues legend Ray Charles, came up in a conversation the other night. It’s the moment when his mom restrains herself from helping him walk. For those who haven’t seen it; the message here is simply the emotional pain on the part of a mother […]
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Thank You…
I like to participate in different loyalty programs with my regular shopping. From Sainsbury to Boots to Costa; I keep my cards and collect points religiously. It’s always great to treat a friend to a free coffee or get some free groceries from this practice. The other Friday, I went to get something from Sainsbury […]
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Living is Working…
I’ve been to the dentist about three times in the last two months and I have to say, it’s not fun! I think I’ve got good teeth and feel a recent need to check them as I accept I’m growing older. I’m discovering maybe not because my dentist sees everything and advises me of root […]
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Guard your Heart…
Of late, I’ve been watching a few NBA games. The recent player trades and team restructurings for this season have been interesting. LeBron James, understandably a popular name on and off the court, has moved back to his home state and is part of a new team with big plans to win another NBA championship. Of […]
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A Heart for Others…
I can only imagine how buzzing rush hour gets in other cities. From management of the transport service to the ever fluctuating temperament of passengers to the unexpected events that tend to occur; I find these interactions interesting. The other evening, en route home by the tube, 2 people got off at Old Street station. […]
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Reflections on Intimacy…
The skin simply covers all that is within and the body serves as a physical manifestation of our true being….meaning it envelopes our essence. This is the Divine design. Now when there is unity amongst members…i.e mind, body and spirit, life is experienced on a true dimension as thoughts, actions and convictions are all in […]
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Acceptance…
Early autumn this year, I was fortunate to have had my first outdoor movie experience in London. It was at an open air theatre near London Bridge and the ambience was great. The Croods, by DreamWorks produced in 2013 was the movie on display and the audience was diverse with both kids and adults, which […]
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Little Sophie…
I found myself in the back of the bus the other day and sitting next to me was a little girl called Sophie. She was all smiles and full of energy this evening. She told me about her school, her granny she was en route to visit and her younger sister. She didn’t really like […]
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A Heart of Service…
I love coffee. An extra hot latte is my usual order and sometimes I have a touch of caramel or hazelnut with it. I particularly like Costa Coffee. For some reason, I appreciate their level of service and customer care and can proudly say I’ve never really had any issues with them. Probably this is […]
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Teaching Pains…
Over the last few years, I’ve ventured into the Private Tutor space in London. I believe it’s somehow related to the fact that my Mom is a teacher and I also grew up tutoring my siblings and peers. I’m a numbers man so you can imagine I stay with Math, which I believe is the […]
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The Spirit or The Letter?
I was passing by Liverpool Street Station the other afternoon when I noticed a lady standing under a tree. She had numerous pamphlets in her possession and was passively handing them out to whoever would care for one. Of course, she was all about spreading the good news; her material was centered on God, Christianity […]
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Sweet Memories…
Sometime last week, I called our Car hire company to book a ride to work for the following morning. A lady took my order and confirmed the relevant details in a professional manner. She had an interesting accent to which I inquired about and we somehow got talking. She told me about her background, upbringing […]
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Thoughts that pass away…
Last week, I got news that a former class mate and friend had passed away. This touched me deeply. Apparently she was involved in a car accident while driving to another city to visit her dad who was sick; the car was fully damaged and she died immediately. I remember her clearly- she was vibrant […]
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Live to Share or Share to Live?
I was babysitting in Church the other Saturday morning. There were about 6 kids at this session. As usual, they wanted to drink juice, eat popcorn and play in the big pen. I let them do this as much as they wanted and ensured there were no issues. One of the girls had brought chocolate […]
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After the Pain, comes the Pleasure…
I grew up curious and at a young age started grasping the concept of life being more than what we see and touch each day. This unique sense was an added bonus when dealing with the world as I better perceived people and events. I feel fortunate to have dated a few women over the […]
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Thoughts on Fear…
I met my god daughter when she was about 6months. I’ve been blessed to watch her grow into a beautiful young girl and I believe she opened my heart to the beauty and innocence of life. She’s 7 now and oh how time flies! I remember when she was about 2 or 3years old, she […]
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I caught the Hiccups…
The other day I caught the hiccups. Now this was a pleasant surprise as it’s been years since I recall ever catching one. It lasted for about 15 minutes en route home one afternoon. I was on the tube; the initial hiccups were unexpected and sounded pretty loud, which was a bit embarrassing. I later […]
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The Dark side of Love…
I remember I was chatting with a colleague at my firm’s Christmas party last year. We traded stories about life, recent changes in our personal lives and general plans for the future. Of course we spoke about relationships; the good, bad and ugly of it because that’s what grown folks tend to talk about! I […]
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A Question of Identity…
The key problem is one of identity. Everything in life can be traced to this. Because this question cannot be answered by many of us…in a clear and definitive way, a lot of the issues we experience exist. The ability to treat this brings clarity to our minds and harnesses our desires. We live deliberately […]
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They say they care…
Seeking life in institutions is futile…..simply because there are sinister elements in every institution. Be it in the form of education, religion or politics…..giving yourself to a structure or organisation that promises to care for you will only lead to disappointment and frustration. Institutions are a going concern and primarily seek to maximize key goals […]
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When it comes to Essence…
The whole point of life is to uncover our Godliness. After all, our nature is His and He is in us…there is really no difference and this is strictly from an essence perspective. This process usually takes time and is an interesting journey for those who choose to participate in it. Many of us don’t […]
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Nothing has Changed…
The story of Adam and Eve is still happening today. Adam’s admiration and pride in his beautiful woman is the same thing that limited his ability to refuse when offered the apple….this is where things went pear shaped. His given purpose…which did not include the apple, took second place to pleasing his woman. Today, some […]
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Our Mothers…
My neighbor at work is pregnant. She’s a lovely lady and every morning everyone around me is entertained by her stories. She tells tales of her difficulty trying to sleep at night, dealings with her husband and first son, her experiences on the commute into work and her fluctuating diet. She speaks with joy of […]
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Too old for this…
I love music. More specifically Hip Hop because it’s a good mix of everything like culture, language and style. I love the range, the creativity and diversity present and this is probably due to the times I was first introduced to it, which was back in the 90’s. So one night after a networking event […]
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Look but don’t touch…
It’s part of company culture where I’m currently working to celebrate Fridays. The morning is filled with Happy Friday greetings, big smiles and conversations on weekend plans. We also tend to treat ourselves to breakfast out as a reward for a good job over the week. Like is popularly believed, treating yourself right is important for self-confidence! […]
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Life and Death…
I sometimes take a taxi to get into work in the City. The other morning, I was riding in one and chatting with my driver when somewhere near Moorgate I witnessed a close car accident. The man had stepped into the street right in front of the car ahead of us which caused everyone else […]
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The Learning Process…
I recently finished a Tech course. This was a very interesting experience as it’s tied in with the new direction my career is heading. Just to be clear, I have no formal qualification within Computer Science, Engineering or the likes but I do have a keen interest in the logical, mechanical and technical world as […]
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Imperfections…
I’ve always had a keen interest in the Financial Markets. Graduating with a 2.1 in Economics and starting my career with a Global Bank was exciting; it exposed me to great minds, strong systems and complex products. I have 6 years of Institutional Financial Services experience under my belt at the moment and I have […]
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Attraction is not a choice…
Sometimes her mood changes; now I find this very interesting because when it comes down to it, it is real. The basis, I may not initially understand or agree with but the flexibility, randomness and depth of her expressions are one of a kind. She is different from me and I accept that. We don’t […]
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